Major Gifts Are Transformational, not Transactional
One of Kinetic’s fundraising tenets is: “No one wants to give money away, but donors do want to make a positive difference in the lives of others or in the life of their community.” A donor’s philanthropy is not a transaction that ends with the gift. It is a transformational act that marks the beginning of an ongoing relationship.
It takes time to cultivate the donor relationship prior to soliciting a major gift, but relationship-building doesn’t end once the gift has been given. A gift should only deepen the relationship. Continued communication and appreciation are not only essential, but they open the door for future giving opportunities, including legacy gifts. Here are a few tips for cultivating donor prospects and deepening donor relationships:
Develop a donor strategy
You should have individual strategies for each prospective donor and existing major gift donor. No two people are the same, so the relationships should not be cultivated and appreciated in the same way. Create a plan based on and tailored to a particular donor’s interests and values.
It’s about the mission, not the money
If you are asking for a gift every time you meet with donors, there is a good chance they will start to feel used or, at least, disenchanted. Talk with them often about the mission – not just the money. Remind them of the impact their gifts are making. Set up personal visits with donors several times a year. These don’t need to be long visits, just meaningful ones. Ask them about their areas of interest – and then really listen.
Illustrate the impact
Donors want to see – not just hear about – the impact their gifts are making. Send them success stories that include pictures of people and projects. Invite them to tour your facility. Have clients and board members send personal, handwritten thank you notes. Be creative in demonstrating your organization’s tangible outcomes and your appreciation.
Donors don’t want to give their money away, but they do want to make a difference. Help them make that happen through strong relationships that will impact the mission now and for years to come.
Ross J. Pfannenstiel, Senior Vice President, ross@kineticfundraising.com
Join Us on the Growing Philanthropy Tour
Next stops on the road to achieving Kinetic’s mission of growing philanthropy by 25 percent in the next 20 years:
Grapevine, Tex.
February 1, 2019
IGNITE 2019: Conference
Sustainable Fundraising
Karin Cox
Inverness-shire, Scotland
February 4-6, 2019
The Great Fundraising Masterclass
Adrian Sargeant
London
February 7-8, 2019
LSE Annual Behavioural Public Policy Lecture
Grantham Centre
John List
San Diego
February 12, 2019
2019 NSFA National Conference
Demystifying the Major Gift Campaign
Karin Cox
Inverness-shire, Scotland
March 4-6, 2019
Think Double! Fundraising Masterclass
Adrian Sargeant
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